We have been receiving a higher than usual rate of Support emails and calls from people seeking help about loved ones in controlling groups and situations.
These situations can be extremely frustrating and while parents, friends and family can get very desperate for help and solutions it is important to arm oneself with as much knowledge on the topic as possible. Most situations do not resolve overnight, they require finesse, educating oneself on all aspects of the situation, strategic planning and patience.
For those struggling to get a loved one out of a cult or abusive situation we recommend educating yourself thoroughly. Educate yourself on how cults and manipulators recruit, what their tactics are, how they gain "control" over someones mind, choices etc. There are several books on the topic of Undue Influence / Mind Control, Cults and Abuse. Here are a few that we recommend.
1. Cult Proofing Your Kids by Dr. Paul R. Martin
2. Cults - What Parents Should Know by Joan Carol Ross, Ed.M and Michael D. Langone, Ph.D.
3. Freedom of Mind Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults and Beliefs by Steven Hassan
We have compiled a 40 page Resource File that will assist you in looking at all the options with these type of situations. If you would like a copy e-mailed to you please send us an e-mail requesting this and in the Subject line please put "Send Resource File" - send request to :
Support@FamiliesAgainstCultTeachings.org
In addition we have free pdf files on our website under the Education section that can be printed and shared. https://www.familiesagainstcultteachings.org/Cult-Education/Fact-sheets/
We are here to help in anyway that we can.
Best,
The FACT Team
Since 2013, Families Against Cult Teachings (F.A.C.T.) has been helping victims and families of cults, undue influence, group exploitation and abuse to heal and recover while exposing the guilty parties. Our mission is to support a more informed public where prevention is achieved through education and to see justice brought to light in cases of cultic abuse and trafficking.
Tuesday, June 12, 2018
Friday, June 8, 2018
Help Change the Legal System - Take This Scientific Research Survey on Undue Influence
Please help Steve Hassan, Cult Expert, by taking this Scientific Research Survey.
"A year ago, I announced a new effort to research, publish, educate, and update the legal system in the United States and, hopefully, around the world. The law still operates using a “rational agent” model, saying essentially that once you reach the age of majority, you make rational choices. However, in the past fifty years especially, there has been a huge amount of research to show that humans are rationalizing but are not rational."
The survey begins gathering important raw data needed.
Read more here: https://freedomofmind.com/scientific-research-survey-to-understand-influence/
Here is the link to the Undue Influence Survey which will take approximately 30-45 minutes.
Thank you for you contribution to this important research.
The FACT Team
"A year ago, I announced a new effort to research, publish, educate, and update the legal system in the United States and, hopefully, around the world. The law still operates using a “rational agent” model, saying essentially that once you reach the age of majority, you make rational choices. However, in the past fifty years especially, there has been a huge amount of research to show that humans are rationalizing but are not rational."
The survey begins gathering important raw data needed.
Read more here: https://freedomofmind.com/scientific-research-survey-to-understand-influence/
Here is the link to the Undue Influence Survey which will take approximately 30-45 minutes.
Thank you for you contribution to this important research.
The FACT Team
Tuesday, June 5, 2018
Shambhala Sexual Abuse Discussed on CBC Radio
"This is what I will tell any students or friends interested in the organization for now – that while much of the teaching there seems excellent and there are clearly amazing people there at many levels, there is also an organizational culture that seems problematic at best, dysfunctional at worst. The number of stories of frustrated members who have attempted to resolve abuse issues and persons raising allegations of abuse are simply too numerous to ignore."
Read the full article and listen to the interview here:
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/americanbuddhist/2018/05/the-secret-is-in-the-open-shambhala-sexual-abuse-discussed-on-cbc-radio.html#tEe4dFQhhjXALArU.03
Sexual abuse in religious communities is at epidemic proportions. Joe Navarro former FBI Counter Intelligence Agent gives some perspective on why that is. We've included some of his extremely important writings in one of our FACT Sheets, which is available to download on our website under the Education section.
https://www.familiesagainstcultteachings.org/Cult-Education/Fact-sheets/
The FACT Team
Monday, June 4, 2018
A "Sex Cult" That Preached Empowerment
Excellent article about NXIVM and Keith Raniere.
"Barbara Bouchey, Raniere’s girlfriend of nine years who left Nxivm in 2009 and was a party to 14 lawsuits involving the group and its related entities, said Raniere kept his other relationships with women, some of whom she calls his “spiritual wives,” secret from her at first. When he didn’t see Bouchey for a few days and she wondered where he had gone, first Raniere and then high-ranked women in the group pointed to her abandonment issues as the daughter of an alcoholic father. Her issues were the problem, not Raniere. Perhaps he was absent because he was trying to teach her a great lesson about one’s expectations of another being.
The two views of Raniere — the world’s most ethical man running an extraordinary self-help organization; a con man who empowered women but retained ultimate power for himself — came up often in my conversation with Bouchey. She said she is not sure if Raniere is a version of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, but he might be."
Read Full article here:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/30/magazine/sex-cult-empowerment-nxivm-keith-raniere.html
The FACT Team
"Barbara Bouchey, Raniere’s girlfriend of nine years who left Nxivm in 2009 and was a party to 14 lawsuits involving the group and its related entities, said Raniere kept his other relationships with women, some of whom she calls his “spiritual wives,” secret from her at first. When he didn’t see Bouchey for a few days and she wondered where he had gone, first Raniere and then high-ranked women in the group pointed to her abandonment issues as the daughter of an alcoholic father. Her issues were the problem, not Raniere. Perhaps he was absent because he was trying to teach her a great lesson about one’s expectations of another being.
The two views of Raniere — the world’s most ethical man running an extraordinary self-help organization; a con man who empowered women but retained ultimate power for himself — came up often in my conversation with Bouchey. She said she is not sure if Raniere is a version of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, but he might be."
Read Full article here:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/30/magazine/sex-cult-empowerment-nxivm-keith-raniere.html
The FACT Team
Wednesday, May 30, 2018
Conclusion to the Uma Inder Follow-up Expose
Part 2 and conclusion of the Follow-up Expose on Uma Inder.
We have also contacted Yoga Alliance, of which Uma is a member
and below is our email correspondence with them.
“Dear
Yoga Alliance ,
It
has come to our attention that a yoga instructor named Uma Inder is a
member of your program.
Uma
is being accused for abusing her power as a teacher to manipulate,
exploit and damage her students. Please find enclosed a link to an
expose on Uma Inder, which will provide some of the exploitations,
manipulations and events of her past abuse on students. We ask that
you prevent any future students from her abuse by reading the
allegations presented in this expose and terminate your work
relationship with her as it is a tremendous liability if a
complaint comes from any of Umas students.
This
was Yoga alliance’s response back to us.
“namaste,
Thank
you for coming forward to share your thoughts in your email dated
Wednesday, April 25 to Yoga Alliance.
I
honor your request for understanding regarding Yoga Alliance’s
policy for responding to and handling allegations of misconduct by a
credential holder.
While
Yoga Alliance does not criminally investigate reports of criminal
behavior or sexual assault, we do take these reports seriously.
If you have directly experienced sexual misconduct by a
credential holder and are interested in pursuing a grievance within
the scope of the Yoga Alliance credential, you can contact me, Leigh
Evans, at levans@yogaalliance.org or
via phone 571.319.0824. My general office hours are Monday – Friday
8am – 4pm (ET). If you are interested in reading more about the
next steps, I invite you to review our Policies
page for further information.
If
you choose to report an experience with a credential holder,
please indicate in your email response:
·
The best time to reach you;
·
The best number to reach you; and
·
Whether or not we can leave a voicemail if we miss you.
You
are more than welcome to have a support person – friend, family,
spiritual advisor – or other trusted individual, with you during
the call.
Again,
thank you for taking the time to write to Yoga Alliance.
In
service,
Leigh
Evans, RYT
200
Accountability
Manager
We
are coordinating with the alleged victims of Uma Inder’s abuses to
directly give their individual complaints to Yoga Alliance.
The
notion that there are only a couple of alleged victims who have come
forward with allegations against Uma’s abusive misconduct couldn't
be further from the truth. Here is the most recent complaint.
“I
support the claim she is a narcissist maybe even delusional and I do
know she spat on someone’s face during an intense fight in one of
her retreat after this person supposedly asking questions she didn’t
like and then spat on his face claiming to the rest of the
participants “And that’s how you deal with that...””
“The
woman is mentally ill. I have no doubt about that.”
As
we stated earlier some of the institutions have discontinued their
relationship with Uma.
For
example, the School of Sacred Arts, Yoga Barn and the latest is the
No Mind Festival in Angsbacka.
Unfortunately,
we are still in the processes of getting the Nordic festival in
Sweden to discontinue Uma’s employment. Here is our latest comment
on the Nordic Satya’s Facebook post regarding Uma’s participation
at the upcoming festival.
In
addition to our expose and information on Uma there has been another
expose written by Be Scofield regarding her alleged abuses. We have
provided a link here for you to read.
https://medium.com/@bescofield/the-yoga-barn-guru-inside-uma-inders-bali-cult-6ac69cdc678b
It has also been brought to our
attention that Uma has been selling her “health products” without
proper government certification.
According
to the allegations found within the complaints received against Uma
Inder, it is our opinion and belief that Uma may be acting as a cult
leader that seems to severely damage her followers in many ways. We
believe Uma Inder’s recruitment, indoctrination, and control
techniques are typical to that of destructive high-control/demand
groups (as per our analysis using the B.I.T.E. model). According to
the complaints, in our opinion it seems Uma Inder has no regard for
the physical, mental, emotional and financial well-being of her
followers. We believe her goal is to psychologically break down
students in the name of “transparency” and “enlightenment”
for control and exploitation purposes. In our estimation, we believe
Uma Inder may be very dangerous and advise potential students to
think twice before becoming a student of this yogi guru.
A final quote from an alleged victim:
“…it is due to these systematic threats and intimidation that Uma Inder has been able to operate for so long without being exposed. These threats require that we protect our identities for the time being. However, we are so concerned about the well-being of current, inactive, former, and possible future cult members that we choose to begin exposing the abuses carried out by Uma Inder.”
We commend all of the brave ex-students of Uma for finding the courage to come together and speak out in an effort to warn potential students and stop the alleged manipulation and abuse. If you have any information about Uma Inder and/or her group that you would like to share, please contact us immediately. Please note: This expose was conducted upon receiving allegations and evidence against Uma Inder by ex-students. The purpose of this expose is to warn, educate, save lives and to protect any potential victims. It is absolutely not intended to slander, libel or harm anyone mentioned in the expose.
A final quote from an alleged victim:
“…it is due to these systematic threats and intimidation that Uma Inder has been able to operate for so long without being exposed. These threats require that we protect our identities for the time being. However, we are so concerned about the well-being of current, inactive, former, and possible future cult members that we choose to begin exposing the abuses carried out by Uma Inder.”
We commend all of the brave ex-students of Uma for finding the courage to come together and speak out in an effort to warn potential students and stop the alleged manipulation and abuse. If you have any information about Uma Inder and/or her group that you would like to share, please contact us immediately. Please note: This expose was conducted upon receiving allegations and evidence against Uma Inder by ex-students. The purpose of this expose is to warn, educate, save lives and to protect any potential victims. It is absolutely not intended to slander, libel or harm anyone mentioned in the expose.
In
Conclusion we at F.A.C.T. have an obligation to our followers and the
alleged victims to expose the truth. As such we will continue to
inform and educate all future institutions and possible students of
Uma.
There
will always be some opposing views from Uma’s believers and
followers. That is the power of undue influence!
Those
who don’t fight EVIL empower EVIL!
-F.A.C.T
Team
Families
Against Cult Teachings and Abuses
Tuesday, May 29, 2018
Uma Inder Follow-up Expose
Dear
FACT Followers,
This
is a follow up to our last expose on Uma Inder. Since our last expose
a few of Uma’s employers have terminated their working relationship
with Uma, which we believe is commendable.
Unfortunately,
some institutions have continued to work with Uma. We have received
complaints from students who are worried about her potential harm to
future students in the upcoming workshops and events. We have
included one of the warnings we received from a former student.
“Subject
: : Urgent - Please stop Uma Teaching
Your
Message : : Uma Inder will be teaching at Kirana Yoga School,
Indonesia 4-6 May. August in Toronto collaborated with Donny
Day, and Ahalia Ayurveda Medical College in Kerala in
November/December”
One
of the past events was held at Kirana Yoga School. This event was
from May 4th-6th
2018. Prior to this
date we contacted said institution, to inform and warn them about the
allegations against Uma Inder and we have not received a response
from them as of yet. In our opinion this shows negligence and it is
unacceptable from an educational institution.
We
will continue to follow up to warn students who attend this school.
Uma
will have a workshop in Toronto collaborated with Donny Day – Upon
contacting Donny Day here is what he had to say in response:
“Hi
Janet,
I
read everything.
These
are claims with no evidence at all - can you imagine if I were to
listen to you? This is clearly fear-mongering and is not
acceptable.
I'm
afraid you've become victim of your own fear - this email and site
you've created seems very cultish & carries an energy of the like
I've not experienced with such a creepy vibe.
When
your approach is more sensitive to the nature of what you're doing,
lets have a conversation. From what I've seen from your email &
the link you sent (no evidence whatsoever), you seem to be the group
that's quite cult-like and does not have to capability of another
point of view (so there will be no effective conversation).
Plus
I can think of a dozen more dangerous folks in the world that are
clearly negative forces in the world you could be addressing which
brings up the next point - this must be personal somehow for your
group - or perhaps there's $$ involved from another pissed off group
or individual (?)
I'm
certain Uma is available to speak directly to you (umainder.com).
Perhaps speak with her instead of sending out such transparently
insecure fear-mongering messages with no evidence but just claims (?)
If
you wish to speak person to person, call me: 905 824 6595
I'm
available to speak June 2nd and after (travelling). be aware
that first impressions are key - check out what yours is.
namaste,
donny
p.s.
after reading my reply, perhaps you feel 'he's on HER side' or
something like that - TAKE THIS IN - THAT'S CULT LIKE THINKING!
it seems you've become victim of your own 'thing' and have become the
cult itself. i'm open to fact-based conversation (times, dates,
events, names etc.) with evidence June 2nd or after.”
And
this was the last follow up e-mail to Donny from FACT.
“Hello
Donny,
This
comes as a response to your email correspondence with Janette. It is
clear to me that you don't want to hear the truth. It is also
obvious that you will perform with Uma and you don't have the
backbone or the decency to see the truth. Uma Inder has hurt hundreds
of people and we are representing those victims. I believe if you
would be a witness to any of Uma Inder’s crimes or misbehaviors you
would still be in denial and continue to support her. And that is why
we believe that Uma Inder and this behavior is a cult.
And
as I say those who don't confront evil, will empower evil. I believe
this is what you are participating in.
Enclosed
please find a couple of the alleged victims input.
Tibor
Stern
President
of Families Against Cult Teachings and Abuses, Inc “
Updated to this post - Here is the second part and conclusion to our follow-up expose on Uma Inder.
http://familiesagainstcultteachings.blogspot.com/2018/05/conclusion-to-uma-inder-follow-up-expose.html
http://familiesagainstcultteachings.blogspot.com/2018/05/conclusion-to-uma-inder-follow-up-expose.html
Sincerely,
The FACT Team
Please note: Our intention at FACT is never to libel or damage anyone’s reputation. The purpose of our work is primarily to educate the public. Moreover, please know that all statements made in this expose are according to our opinion at FACT based upon signed affidavits, complaints and evidence we received from alleged victims and through our analysis of this information according to the B.I.T.E. model (developed by cult expert Steven Hassan).
Please note: Our intention at FACT is never to libel or damage anyone’s reputation. The purpose of our work is primarily to educate the public. Moreover, please know that all statements made in this expose are according to our opinion at FACT based upon signed affidavits, complaints and evidence we received from alleged victims and through our analysis of this information according to the B.I.T.E. model (developed by cult expert Steven Hassan).
Complaint Filed - Apostolic Revival Center Peru, Indiana
One of the many recent Complaints Filed with FACT.
CULT, GROUP or CHURCH INFORMATION:
"Name of Cult, Group or Church: Apostolic Revival Center Peru Indiana
Where: Peru, Indiana
Leader(s): XXXX
Please describe the cult activity: They pay people to stay. If you try to leave they threaten you. They completely have strayed away from what they claimed to be at first. Their members are so sure that they’re the “truth” and if you come against what they believe they lash out at you.
Involvement with group: Yes
1) When did you/they get involved & for how long?
Family Member - 5 yrs ago
2) How did you/they get involved? How were you/they directly recruited? They claimed to be a Pentecostal church. My family is Pentecostal. They thought it was an upstanding organization. The pastor has gone to great lengths to recruit people in the last five years.
3) Are there other family members involved?
Only one of my family members
4) Has their been a disconnection of relationship(s) with family, old friends? Yes. They come to family functions, and they spew a bunch of information about their beliefs, and if you come against them they have a freak Out.
5) What are the circumstances currently? They attend regularly.
Impact from group: They have stalked me to try to get me to join, via Facebook. When I refused, my family members who attend basically shunned me.
Is there anything else that we should know or you would like to tell us: Please look deeper into these people. They’re dangerous. They stalk people and threaten people. It’s not good."
If you have any experience with this Center please let us know.
Thank you,
The FACT Team
CULT, GROUP or CHURCH INFORMATION:
"Name of Cult, Group or Church: Apostolic Revival Center Peru Indiana
Where: Peru, Indiana
Leader(s): XXXX
Please describe the cult activity: They pay people to stay. If you try to leave they threaten you. They completely have strayed away from what they claimed to be at first. Their members are so sure that they’re the “truth” and if you come against what they believe they lash out at you.
Involvement with group: Yes
1) When did you/they get involved & for how long?
Family Member - 5 yrs ago
2) How did you/they get involved? How were you/they directly recruited? They claimed to be a Pentecostal church. My family is Pentecostal. They thought it was an upstanding organization. The pastor has gone to great lengths to recruit people in the last five years.
3) Are there other family members involved?
Only one of my family members
4) Has their been a disconnection of relationship(s) with family, old friends? Yes. They come to family functions, and they spew a bunch of information about their beliefs, and if you come against them they have a freak Out.
5) What are the circumstances currently? They attend regularly.
Impact from group: They have stalked me to try to get me to join, via Facebook. When I refused, my family members who attend basically shunned me.
Is there anything else that we should know or you would like to tell us: Please look deeper into these people. They’re dangerous. They stalk people and threaten people. It’s not good."
If you have any experience with this Center please let us know.
Thank you,
The FACT Team
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